Adam always puts other people first no matter what he is going through himself. He constantly helps his colleagues without hesitation and never thinks anything about how far he is with his own work load! He is a fabulous step dad to my 4 sons two of which are 13 and live with us. (Hes brought them up since 1yrs of age!) They are homeschooled and adam feels really upset that he has been unable to do much with them as he has been under alot of pressure in his day job and he also has a disco business to help money coming in to survive, that takes up alot of the weekends, the boys (twins) are going through puberty and one of which has aspergers and is struggling with a lot at the moment. A dream day would be just what is needed for adam to re-connect with the boys and myself and take away the stresses for a few hours. There are lots of lovely moments too many to mention but alot if those are from adam sacrificing something for the boys to have something. Yesterday was the most recent where adam had been saving up for new windows but used some of the saving to be able to buy kye (twin with as) a ticket to see his lifelong ambition to see gorillaz (gorillaz is kyes thing, neither i or adam are fans lol) but he is willing to drive all the way to margate and stay in a hotel fir 3 nights, ond on way, one on the night and one on wY home, all his window money will be gone and the save will start all over again. Truly is an amazing person, we are extremely lucky to have him in our lives. Ps i dont work full time as i have back problems, we recieve no benefits of any kind not even for kye, adam wants to be the breadwinner and the hero always so it would be so fantastic for us to be able to give something back to him x (he is currently at this minute building a bed for our 2yr old goddaughter ava) x x